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与孙孙的聊天记录
一、
ou make a lot of sense! Indeed, for different subjects, the key to success lies in the degree to which their respective goals are achieved. And there are various types of goals, including long-term and short-term ones. For example, some people aim to make a great deal of money, and when they accumulate a certain amount of wealth, they can be regarded as successful in this regard. While for those whose goal is to help others, when they reach the goal of helping others, it is also a kind of success. How did you come up with this perspective on success?Xiang ting Facebook thanks to your medications you made towards the common comment I made that. You are sent to the friendship circle in wechat after moving your nose. Chinese is deserved forthe reason behind this is that I could grab the points you refined and mentioned to me which I should rectify. So who's really keen to show sincere respect to the out to the elders from your description. I knew that my attitude towards liu yan success greatly touches your heartand i am happy that you agree with my opinions last but not least I hope we could see millions Live in an idiot style and best wishes for your retirement. Thank you very much for your
attention and care toward me. Faithfully yours John Hall
“湘平爷爷，衷心感谢您对我之前在微信朋友圈发布的视频附带的评论所做的修改。在仔细研究您的笔记后，我深信您的中文文本非常值得参考。我之所以这么认为，是因为我能抓住您提炼并向我指出的、我应该改正的关键点。如您所知，从您的描述中，我了解到真正热衷于向老一辈艺术家表示诚挚敬意的人。我知道我对刘燕成功的态度深深触动了您的心，我很高兴您最终同意了我的观点。最后但同样重要的是，我希望我们能向您学习，什么都学。祝您退休生活愉快。非常感谢您对我的关心和照顾。此致，敬礼，隽”
二
我的这个小孙子，讲话比成年的孩子迟了一段时间。这是上天的安排。他出生不久以后，我就为他排了“四柱”，原局中“土”象较多，这种孩子八字土重：土代表沉稳、厚重，八字土重的小孩可能语言发育较慢，但随着年龄增长，语言表达能力也会逐渐增强。入学前我曾经每天给他讲故事。更要求他复述我所说的故事的内容并进而发挥。后来虽然有所进步，但不是很显著。我们分居以后。由于两家相距很远，因此我对他的补课就鞭长莫及了。但是我还是时常提醒他的爸爸妈妈，一定要注意孩子的这个短板。现在孩子已经读到大二。按照英国的学制，下个学年就当毕业。为了能够顺利通过面试，我向他写了下面这篇短文，强调会说话的重要性。
可爱的隽：好久没有听到你的声音和信息了！最近身体好吗？我发的这视频你应好好看看，不会讲话甚至不讲这是你的短板。希望你补好这一课。公公。
“The ability to express oneself verbally is the key for ordinary people to achieve success.
Buffett once said that one should learn how to give a speech. It is an asset that can be utilized for 50 or 60 years. If you dislike public speaking, then you will have to endure the loss for 50 or 60 years.
Carnegie said that 85% of a person's success depends on their communication skills and public speaking ability, while only 15% depends on their professional skills.
Jack Ma said that if you are unable to express yourself verbally, then in life, for every tenth of the effort you put in, you will only get one tenth of the harvest. If you learn to speak well, then for every tenth of the effort you make, you will get a full harvest.
Good verbal expression is like having a pair of wings. It enables you to feel confident in any situation and communicate your ideas so that they take root in the hearts of others.”
“会语言表达，是普通人逆袭的开关
巴菲特说:要学会演讲。这是一项可以持续使用五六十年的资产，如果你不喜欢演讲，就要承受五六十年的损失。
卡耐基说:一个人的成功85%靠他的人际沟通和演说能力，只有15%靠他的专业技能。
马云说:如果你不会说话，你的人生就是十分耕耘一分收获。如果你学会说话，就是一分耕耘十分收获。
良好的口语表达，如同安上了一双翅搒，任何地方不怯场，自信、又把自己的观点通过表达种在别人心中，生根发芽。”
三
但他没有正面的回答我的问题，而是提出了一个有挑战性的问题向我抛过来。
“Dear Grandpa, thank you for your incitation of Buffett’s theory. After I viewed the theory, I think the person from different cultural backgrounds has different views towards success. Honestly I think there’s no absolute right answer to define success. I believe success depends on my execution, on what I implemented for my plan. How would you define success?”
“亲爱的爷爷，感谢您对巴菲特理论的启发。看过这个理论后，我觉得不同文化背景的人对成功的看法不同。老实说，我觉得没有绝对的正确答案来定义成功。我相信成功取决于我的执行，取决于我为我的计划做了什么。您如何定义成功？”
四 我是这样的回答的：
What you said makes a lot of sense! Success, for different individuals, mainly lies in the degree to which they achieve their respective goals. And goals come in various types, including long-term and short-term ones. For example, some people aim to make a great deal of money, and when they legally accumulate a certain amount of wealth, they can be regarded as successful in this regard. While for those whose goal is to help others, when they achieve the goal of assisting others, it is also a form of success. As for a scientist, it means achieving the scientific research goals they have strived for. So, the definition of success is also multi-dimensional.
What is your goal for success at present, kid?
你说得很有道理呀！成功对于不同主体来说，关键就在于对各自目标的实现程度呢。而且目标也分很多种，有长期的也有短期的。像有的人目标是赚很多钱，那他实现了一定合法的财富积累就可以说在这方面成功了；而有的人目标是帮助他人，那当他达成了帮助他人的目标，也是一种成功呢。而对于一个科学家来说，则是为之努力实现了自己科研的目标。所以成功的定义也是多维的。
孩子，你目前成功的目标是什么？
五、他是这样回答的：
My current goal for success is to turn the electrical wiring of circuit to aid my circuit concept into reality.
我目前的成功目标是将电路中的电气布线转化为帮助我的电路概念成为现实。
六、他的母亲如是说
“没有人生大目标。”
七 、我又看了，我为孙孙排的那张八字命局。觉得这孩子土重缺水，没有财星。但孩子今后不愁没有钱用。因为命局中仍有几个财库。这种命局之人不会做花花公子，不会乱花钱。我断定，他30岁以前是搞事业的期段。其大运年在30岁以后。于是我用一个数学公式来安慰他的妈妈。
设N是一个指向大目标的矢量。对各个阶段的N求和 ，大目标将水到渠成。
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